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Making better disciples: grace vs. knowledge

February 24, 2014 By: demingglobal112 Comments

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The past few women I’ve discipled, I’ve used the same material – a thin yellow booklet touching on the major aspects of Christian living.

Meeting on a weekly basis, we cover things like: assurance of salvation, church membership, why we should study the Bible, and baptism.

If you’ve ever been discipled, you’ve probably gone though a similar curriculum.  It’s pretty basic stuff.  Good stuff.

But also a little dry!

That’s because most discipleship curriculum covering the foundations of the Christian faith has one goal: to provide data.  I’m glad! It’s needed.

But I’m learning that discipleship is more about grace than it is about mere knowledge. 

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Grace vs. knowledge?

Among the women I’ve discipled, it is far easier for them to see the grace they’ve been shown in the actual event of salvation than to understand how to walk in light of that grace every day.

But new believers need to know that grace is a present possibility just as much as it is a past reality.

We need grace to overcome fear and failures.

We need grace to heal the brokenness of sin.

We need grace to praise and offer thanks in the midst of heartache. To build relationships, to repair them. To fulfill our respective callings, to see the Great Commission completed.

Grace-filled discipleship

To make better disciples, our discipleship strategies must do more than relegate grace to a past event – something that Christ did for us on the cross so we could get past those pearly gates. 

God’s grace shown through Christ is the fuel for spiritual change in the discipleship story.  It is the defining characteristic that not only rescues us from sin, but allows us to soar over it every day.

Evangelism is telling people about God’s grace; discipleship is helping them to walk in it.

Grace-filled discipleship is needed regardless of church size or shape.  But after serving in a church planting context for the past few years, I’ve seen grace-filled discipleship is incredibly important in areas of the country where a religious culture is largely absent.

Our church plant is located in an area that is slow to embrace the gospel.  New believers from our area often lack the religious knowledge commonly present in other cultural areas of the U.S.  When they walk into a worship service for the first time, everything is new.

With no other support system, they need help regaining their feet when they fall back into the old ways of life.

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To make better disciples, we must not only teach women about God, but lead them to know him fully (1 Cor. 13:12-13). We must strive for grace-filled discipleship.

Grace-filled discipleship takes the disciple by the hand and walks her through repentance and restoration so that the grace of Christ leaps from the past into the present.

Grace-filled discipleship pushes a reluctant or lazy disciple forward when the world beckons her from the sidelines.

Grace-filled discipleship asks solid and penetrating questions to spur growth and reveal her heart’s secret idols.

In the end, grace-filled discipleship is just as much about the discipler as it is about the disciple.  As a disciple-maker, I must ensure my disciple grasp God’s grace before anything else.

I must be honest and open about my own struggles.  I must walk with a disciple daily, instead of trying to squeeze a book on biblical foundations in 4-week sessions.  I must show grace when the disciple messes up and doesn’t know how to rightly orient her heart toward Christ again.

I think it is why Peter urges us to “grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ” (1 Pet. 3:18). Grace-filled discipleship requires both knowledge and grace. 

When you became a Christ-follower, what aspect of discipleship helped you the most? What was the most meaningful aspect of your discipleship process? Share your thoughts in the comments!

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  1. Laura says

    February 24, 2014 at 1:24 pm

    Thank you for your article on grace-filled discipleship. I find this so true, especially with young people who see Christianity as a list of rights and wrongs, and adults as hypocrites. Grace-filled discipleship is real and filled with the love of God, without neglecting the importance of righteous living.

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    • Melissa Deming says

      February 24, 2014 at 4:03 pm

      HI Laura, thanks for stopping by. You are right! When we only emphasize knowledge, we can easily tend toward legalism. We must have a biblical balance!

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  2. Holly Gustafson says

    February 24, 2014 at 3:25 pm

    I love this! Oh so true. We tend to focus so much on the knowledge piece (which is important) and often forget to show people the grace we have all received.

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    • Melissa Deming says

      February 24, 2014 at 4:04 pm

      Hi Holly, yes! It is so easily forgotten I think in part because we still tend to gravitate toward our own efforts! Good reminder!

      Reply
  3. Justin says

    February 24, 2014 at 8:25 pm

    Excellent article, thanks for sharing and encouraging, but most of all, thanks for discipling others.

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    • Melissa Deming says

      February 27, 2014 at 5:53 pm

      Thanks Justin!

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  4. Christina says

    February 24, 2014 at 9:58 pm

    I love this distinction between evangelism and discipleship. Good stuff, Melissa!

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    • Melissa Deming says

      February 26, 2014 at 1:39 am

      thanks Christina! I always love it when you stop by!

      Reply
  5. Mary Hill says

    February 27, 2014 at 2:18 pm

    I know this may sound weird, but I have never considered myself a “disciple.” I am a Christian and walk with Christ, read my Bible daily, work as an altar worker. I know I am a disciple, but the concept has not been fully explained to me. I know there were 12 disciples who walked with and learned from Christ himself. But what does it mean to be a disciple today? I enjoyed reading this today. My word this year is “connections.” Now, I have a path to make my connection more real as I delve into what a disciple really is.

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    • Melissa Deming says

      February 27, 2014 at 5:54 pm

      Thanks Mary! I think we are all still learning what a disciple is and what discipleship truly means. I’m learning that being a disciple is more than simply being a follower. it is being a life-long devoted student and servant to our King!

      Reply
  6. Mary Hill says

    February 27, 2014 at 2:18 pm

    I know this may sound weird, but I have never considered myself a “disciple.” I am a Christian and walk with Christ, read my Bible daily, work as an altar worker. I know I am a disciple, but the concept has not been fully explained to me. I know there were 12 disciples who walked with and learned from Christ himself. But what does it mean to be a disciple today? I enjoyed reading this today. My word this year is “connections.” Now, I have a path to make my connection more real as I delve into what a disciple really is.

    Reply

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